HOW TO GET OVER REJECTION

How to get over her rejection.

If I may ask: when was the last time somebody gave you a sudden blow?
Have you ever imagined yourself being punched by Mike Tyson’s blow?
Everyone knows Mike Tyson as a great boxer.Unfortunately, it seems no
one ever measured Mike’s heavy hits with a punch-o-meter.

But they did measure those of his rival Frank Bruno—who was estimated to land 1,420
pounds of force in the ring. Even though Bruno represented two of
those 44 knockouts, let’s assume Tyson’s blows were pretty much equal.
If we take that force and assume that he could produce that force for
just under a foot, we get around 1,178-foot-pounds, or, 1,600 joules
of energy. So what is it like getting hit by 1,600 joules of Tyson?
Well, may be that’s too far and not realistic since you can never come
face-to-face with him, especially on the ring.

But, may I ask if you’ve ever been crushed by a reckless motorcyclist;
or what kind of feeling you have when you are told your most loving, caring and
hospitable granny just passed-away? Well, may be that could be a
little close to where am driven at. I know to some of us, its an
experience we never wish to repeat itself in our lifetime. While some
are use to rejection from ladies; to others, its a first experience.
At times, I use to wonder if ladies actually have the idea what ‘NO’
implies to a sincerely-loving and caring heart who want nothing for
her than happiness? Her ‘NO’ sometimes echoes and resonate in a way
that assumed the whole world has pronounced their judgment on you.

But thats a lie! You only confirm it through your attitude. I know it
could be hard, odd and discouraging, but that’s not the end of it all.
Dont start asking yourself if anything is wrong with you. Rather, gay
and face the journey ahead.

The best always awaits a man of patience! Though it hard to accept;
it hurts and painful. Yet, let not another person’s opinion determines
your happiness or joy. Everone is entitle to their opinion. If you can
withstand and so courageous to ask reason behind her rejection.

Go ahead and be contented with whatever reason she give, if she answer you.
And dont let any of that get into you. If you have matured friends, or big
aunty or uncles to discuss it with, go ahead. And I will suggest if possible,
hang-out with your friends or engage in some physical activities that command
your total attention. But that’s certainly not time for your mathematical class.

Although, some psychologist suggested throwing more than one stone at
a bird. Having your application rejected by one company is less
painful if that application is being considered somewhere else. You
think less about a failed interview if you know you have another
appointment second day. But I certainly not in support of this:
because of my faith!

What other means has helped you overcome your rejection moment(s)?
Share it with us. I Rest My PEN